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Thursday, 12 March 2020

Grace & Frankie

I LOVE the Netflix series Grace & Frankie.  I love it so much I'm watching it from the very beginning again.  

Naturally, Frankie is my favourite character.  I love her free wheeling nature, her huge jewellery, her funky colourful clothes, her mane of hair and her hand painted clogs. 

Yet, I've noticed that I am Grace or Frankie depending on who I'm with.  My sister, Louise is a full time art student in the Crawford School of Art and is like Frankie with her love of art and her long hair.  With her I am Grace, the sensible one.  Why? I'm not sure.  She's not a flake and doesn't need the likes of me to keep her grounded but she has a such a relaxed, non-judgemental approach to other humans and life in general that makes me envious and somehow it brings out the control freak in me.

At work, I am surrounded by very sensible people and they bring out the Frankie in me.  I've even bought myself a pair of clogs.   I'm the one who laughs at the inappropriate moments.  A colleague told me her house burned down and I barked out laughing.  Tragedies make me laugh.  The more someone is suffering the more I am inclined to laugh.    At my father's funeral, my brothers and I were giggling at memories of him two minutes after his coffin left the church.  Maybe it's an anxiety thing.   Frankie would have laughed.



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